I have been thinking lately, “What is it that makes a great night with my wife?” As I thought about it, I really had to wrestle with it, since we have had some many great nights together, I wanted to know what they had in common.
The more I thought about it, the easier it got. The nights that I enjoy most are the nights that we connect. Sometimes it is a date out, sometimes it is a date in, but either way, it is on those nights when we truly talk to one another and it is so sweet. Sometimes the talk is about important things, but most of the time it is not all business, but rather enjoyable topics, hopes and dreams, stuff the kids did, memories of other times, and silly things. Most of all it is expressions of love, some silly, some flirty, some cuddly, some romantic, and some passionate.
Does it always lead to making love? No, it happens some of the time, but not all of it by any means. It is about closeness, it is about connecting. It is those nights more than any other that draw us close together.
Take that time for each other, it will help you grow closer and it will help you to keep both of your world’s rocked all the time!