I was looking though a website that I stumbled upon – Peacefulwife.com and I found this article “What do you admire about your Man” and I liked it. It gave me the idea to write about the importance of telling your man, that you admire him.
We live in a world where all of us often feel like people are always on our back about something. All day at work we here things like do this, do that, work harder, faster, better, and. When we do good, we are expected to do even better the next day.
The bottom line is that we often feel like no matter what we do it is never enough. It is a shame when this follows us home. A husband often feels the same way when they get home as they did at work. We feels like our wife is often mad about something. Sometimes, we start to think that you really don’t like us, you are just tolerating us because you have to. I have been there and it is a miserable way to live.
If you don’t want him to feel that you only tolerate him, if you want your husband to feel special to feel appreciated, admired then it is simple: TELL HIM! It will make him feel great. Tell him many different things you appreciate and admire about him, from being patient, to being a good provider. Being a good father, husband, and lover. Being a good example and being good Christian man. Tell all of this and anything else you can think of. Build him up, let him know that you really do admire him. You can do it all at once, you can do it one trait at a time, but it needs to be done often, it needs to be sincere, and it needs to be more than just words, put some actions with it. Actions can be anything from making his favorite desert to dressing up in something special for him. Giving him a huge hug and kiss to making his favorite dinner. Sending him texts during the day that encourage him. Me? I love a nice massage, if you are interested I wrote a post last week entitled “The Ultimate Massage.” You may want to give it a read.
It is my sincere hope that when you start expressing your admiration to him, that he will do the the same thing back for you!